Salut c'est Tam. how to become the best version of yourself? over time for my part, I saw my own evolution with a little hindsight, and maybe you also noticed it through my youtube channel, and if not the I invite you to watch my very first videos and you will see that I begin to know what I am talking about when I tell you how to become the best version of yourself. so a few years ago, who was I? I was still doing a student job I was making a very poor living, I was doing a job that I liked less over time, deliveroo rider, and from a social point of view I was not at all fulfilled, also about my physical health but also the fact of feeling good about myself, I did not have at all the same well-being that I have today and in this video I would like to share with you  How do I improve the so-called three main branches of life: the social aspect, the financial aspect, the health aspect. For my part all these elements have come to improve in cascade through these last years of my life, and I would therefore like to share with you in this video, how to have the same progressive but sure evolution. I know there are many people who will tell you for example, how to have a dream body in an hour, a day, in the space of 1 month or 2 months, other people who show you how to get rich in a snap of fingers, or maybe other people who will tell you how to seduce a girl in a snap of fingers, the girl of your dreams, or vice versa with a man if you are a woman , or whatever your orientation is. all this to tell you that, in my opinion, all this is a process, it is a work on yourself in everyday life and you will see that in this video I will share with you the keys that I applied to myself , there are things that worked, other things that didn't work, I'm not saying that everyone should follow the same path in the same way, I'm just telling you what worked for me and maybe it will also work for you.

first of all i would like to tell you what held me back from becoming a better version of myself. At the time I did not trust myself when I was a teenager for example, I had health that was not great, a healthy lifestyle that was not constant, finances that were very bad, and also a social life that was not exactly as I wanted it to be. I had trouble identifying what I wanted, I had trouble improving it but above all I compared myself to others. Indeed , while my lifestyle was a bit poor, I compared myself to people who had a crazy health, a sick physique, these people ,there, had a dream body, ate balanced every day, and I ate sandwiches in my box, in fact I was only comparing myself to the best. same thing in the field of finance, I watched people on YouTube and I said to myself, but how these people manage to have top finances, these people manage to invest in real estate, these people there travel all  year, these people buy a new car every 3 months, these people send their families on vacation and make them happy, these people manage to afford an incredible daily life and comfort, and on top of that , they have lots of friends, they meet people who are beautiful, super intelligent, super rich people. how could I one day, the little Tam, reach this level? and precisely you should not compare yourself to others. I think, it's like in the business field, you will always meet people who earn a lot more than you, you will always meet people who are healthier than you, you will always meet people who have more friends or more valued in society than you. that's why, personally, it took me a lot of time, in each of these areas, to stop comparing myself to others, to stop competing, but to challenge myself. that's why in this video the title is not, how to become better than the others, but how to become the best version of yourself. so I invite you to stop comparing yourself to others but rather to see how others have evolved. In my case, in the field of finance, even today I could say to myself, but how do these people there are even richer than me? or in the field of bodybuilding, how do these people manage to become more muscular than me and honestly I am very far from being a bodybuilder but quite simply I have a body today that I like, I can look at myself in the mirror by being proud. same thing in the social field, I have friends that mean a lot to me, I don't have a lot of friends, I also don't have all the women I want in a snap of my fingers but nevertheless I trust me, I have what I want, what I'm looking for. All this to tell you that today, you should not compare yourself to others but compare yourself to a version of yourself a few days ago or a few months ago and later when you step back, you will remember yourself a few years ago and you will feel proud of yourself. personally today if I make this video, it's because I have enough confidence in myself to tell you that I have evolved positively, at least compared to what I was looking for. Obviously everything depends on you, everything depends on your goals but I wanted to share this point of view with you. the big key that has opened a lot of doors and opportunities in my life that I have seized is the fact of being used to going out of my comfort zone. what is a comfort zone, it is simply a daily life in which you are satisfied and yet in the long term you say to yourself, I do not have the results that I would like to have, it is simply because that you don't take enough opportunity, you don't get out of your comfort zone often enough.

what is a comfort zone? for example a few years ago I was making videos in my bedroom, I never told myself that I would dare to speak in front of the camera and post my videos on YouTube, and yet I did. being used to getting out of your comfort zone, it's a daily job, there is a beginning to everything, the same in the field of fitness, I was skinny at the start and it was when I left my zone of comfort that I gained muscle mass and what happened is that there are unexpected things that can happen. All to say that, at the beginning we can be ashamed to go into fitness if you are skinny or fat but no, you can be proud of yourself because very few people dare to take the first step because they are afraid of exposing their bodies. so you have to persevere even if you don't have the results right away. this is how we learn from others and from their experience, it's by leaving your comfort zone, you have to put your ego aside, in my opinion today I know that I have a lot of knowledge but I'm always open to learn from others because it's by meeting people, that you realize that you don't know everything. leave in your ego aside and let other people teach you other things and that's how you get out of your comfort zone all the time. In my case, if I thought I knew everything in the field of business, then my business would be out of date for a very long time because we don't learn by ourselves, we learn from our mistakes but we learn faster from the mistakes of others. that's why I started reading books, that's why I started to learn from others and when I traveled I learned from other cultures, and all that changed my level of happiness, it changed my health, it changed my finances, what happened to me? a few years ago, when I started to be well financially, fairly well in my health, fairly well in a social level, I was looking to improve, I did not know how, I  had no solution, I called on a coach and my standard of living increased ten times better, I work more efficiently and therefore I had more time for myself, my finances improved, and a In terms of accomplishment, I did more things that I liked since I had more time and more finance, so I could do new things that I had never done before, and that opened up new opportunities, new doors, new visions and allowed me to better understand others, and all this had an importance on all aspects of my life, which made that gradually I became a better version of myself without pretending to be the best, just by being the best version of myself, having a sense of accomplishment, and that's what I would like you to feel, that feeling of accomplishment so that you become a better person every day . now i'm going to share with you a hack that is going to make you progress much faster, and that is going to make that you are going to get results, even small but in a very short period of time, which is going to make you are going to be motivated to constantly improve yourself. it is about removing bad habits. for example in the health field, do you use the car for example for a trip of only 5 minutes, remove this bad habit and you will improve your health very slightly. for example the social aspect, has it ever happened to you that you forgot to greet someone in a group of friends, in a group of people, this can potentially create some discomfort. try not to make this mistake again, so that it does not become a habit. in the area of ​​finance, perhaps you have ever thrown away things that you could have reused or simply sold.

Besides, when I recommend to friends or people who watch this Youtube channel to start their own business, these people answer me that they have no money to start their business. I'm sure these people have things in their house to sell. in my case when I have to change my camera or get rid of the books I have already read, or even change my car, or change my apartment, I will make sure to liquidate as many things as possible to sell in order save and invest in my business. I will also have this feeling of accomplishment when I acquire this money to open my business. now I am going to share with you one of my errors which slowed me down a lot in the 3 branches of my life. it's thinking you're the most advanced in the room. today if you think you are the most muscular in a fitness club, that you are the smartest in a classroom or in a study room, that you think you are the most appreciated in a group and therefore you no longer make the effort to meet new people, well I invite you to change rooms. change gym if you are the most muscular in this room, so you will learn from people even more muscular than you, change the path, the orientation if you think you are the smartest in your class. change your social circle if you think that in this group you are the most intelligent from a personal development point of view. so I invite you to question yourself and not stay in your comfort zone by constantly reminding yourself that you are the best in such a place. personally on the level of my finances, even if in Belgium or in Vietnam, I can feel extremely well but it is there that I realize that there are Entrepreneurs even richer than me and more popular. I should not rest on my base. you must therefore ask yourself today whether you are in the right place. if you think you are the best in a room, you have to change rooms to realize that there are people who are even stronger than you. Now I would like to talk to you about something that I think we talk about too little, it is the fact of really being focused on yourself. for a very long time I was trying to get out of the rat race. what is the rat race? it's a term that was used by Robert Kiyosaki and this term has been used extensively in Belgium or France but what does that mean ? this means that for a very long time you may be looking for financial independence and you are still working for money, so you get up in the morning to go to work, you are on the subway, you go to work, you do a job that you don't necessarily like, maybe you know this pattern, it's called the rat race. now there is the entrepreneur race, there is a second race, and no one wins in this race. so the rat race, there are employees who work for  their bosses, they are stuck in this system but you have to know that you can get out of it, you can become financially independent and that should be the goal of everyone or anyone looking to improve their level of happiness and their level of freedom.

but as I told you, the title of this video is how to become the best version of yourself, do not be too competitive because no one wins in the entrepreneurs race. So be careful to stay focused on yourself and just think about how to become the best version of yourself. personally I know Entrepreneurs who have collected millions of euros but who will still work even more in order to catch up with other entrepreneurs because they are always in a competitive spirit and always want to compare themselves with others and even if they have enough money to buy whatever they want, they will not stop working because they will constantly compare themselves to other people. so be careful to get out of the rat race but not to try to win the entrepreneur race. so we come to the end of this video you now understand how to become the best version of yourself, I'm sure that following my advice you will be more proud of yourself, and you will become a better person. if just like me you want to open your online business by creating a blog, a Youtube channel and making money on the internet by selling your products, I show you everything in my Mindfunnels product, in the links of the description in bottom of this video. don't forget to subscribe to my channel, and hit the notification bell. thank you, let’s meet ourselves on the other side of the wall which is financial freedom, see you in the next video. ciao ciao!